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Why Affirmations Work: The Science Behind the Words

By Meredith Limoges

WHEN FEELING BECOMES “FACT”

Have you ever replayed a moment in your mind until it felt truer than what actually happened?
Our brains are powerful storytellers. They don’t always distinguish between what’s real and what’s imagined—so whatever we repeat, we begin to believe.

That truth became clear for me one afternoon in the studio. Two of my team members had a misunderstanding. One of them had been deeply hurt in a previous job—undermined, backstabbed, and left feeling unprotected. So when a situation at work started to look familiar, their brain fired off a warning: It’s happening again.

They became convinced a teammate was going behind their back to gain favor with me. None of it was true—but the emotion was. Within hours, tension filled the room.

When we finally sat together, I didn’t dismiss what they felt. Their emotion was valid because it came from a very real past. But then I carefully walked them through what had actually happened—the other team member had come to me about something completely different. It wasn’t about them at all.

As I spoke truth into the situation, I watched the tension start to release. The lies lost their hold. The moment didn’t just restore peace—it revealed something deeper: our emotions often echo old wounds, but truth helps us see the present clearly again.

Conversation symbolizing clarity, compassion, and truth in action.

THE SCIENCE OF WHAT HAPPENED

Every thought we think leaves a trail in the brain.
Neuroscientists call it neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to reshape itself through repetition.

When we repeatedly tell ourselves something, even if it’s untrue, our brains begin to treat it as fact. Hormones like cortisol surge, preparing us for defense. But when we intentionally speak truth—I am safe, I am supported, I pause before reacting—the brain releases calming chemicals like serotonin and dopamine, guiding us back to balance.

Affirmations are simply truth spoken with intention. They interrupt the cycle where emotion overrides fact.

Neural pathways lighting up to symbolize affirmations rewiring the brain.

SEE IT IN PRACTICE

That moment in the studio was a living example of what affirmations look like in action.
The trigger came from the past, but the healing happened in the present.

When I slowed the conversation down, I named the emotion—fear of betrayal—and replaced it with truth. I spoke what was real: No one was working against you. You are seen. You are safe here.

And that’s what we’re invited to do in our own lives.
When your mind starts replaying old pain, pause and speak truth over it.
Say: This is not the same story.
Say: I listen before I assume.
Say: I’m safe to see things clearly.

In that pause, your brain begins to rewire. You’re teaching it that not every discomfort means danger—and that truth can guide emotion, not the other way around.

That’s how peace begins to grow—one intentional word at a time.

HOW TO PUT THIS INTO PRACTICE

Try this three-step rhythm whenever emotion rises:

1. Notice the story your mind is telling.
Is it shaped by the present moment—or by the past? Simply noticing breaks the automatic cycle.

2. Acknowledge your feeling, then invite truth in.
You can say, “This feels real, but I’m going to check the facts.”
Truth doesn’t silence emotion; it steadies it.

3. Repeat your affirmation aloud.
The more senses you engage—seeing, saying, hearing—the more powerful the neural imprint becomes.

When you practice this consistently, your body begins to respond differently. Your breathing slows. Your thoughts clear. The next time emotion surges, your brain remembers peace.

Practicing calm self-talk and daily truth ritual.

REFLECT AND REFOCUS

What past experience might be shaping how I interpret today’s challenges?
How could I pause long enough to speak truth before reacting?
What simple statement brings me back to calm when my thoughts start racing?

BEGIN YOUR DAILY TRUTH RITUAL

The moment we start speaking truth—especially when emotion runs high—something shifts inside us.
Our words begin to heal what experience once fractured.

At SayLa, we built our ritual to make that practice tangible. A simple daily rhythm to help you pause, breathe, and speak what’s real. Because truth isn’t just something you believe—it’s something you practice.

Start your Daily Truth Ritual →